Domestic violence lawyer - an order within 24 hours, a case over months, consequences for years
A domestic violence case is the only category of criminal law in which one call to the police changes, that same night, who lives where, who sees the children and who has the right to enter the home. A restraining order is issued by the police officer on the spot, the court confirms it within days, and breaching it is a separate crime. The speed protects the victim - and that very speed creates the risk of a false accusation.
This page is for both sides: the victim, who needs protection and documentation so that the case does not fall apart at the first hearing, and the accused, who is often faced with an order, restricted contact with the children and a criminal case in parallel with a divorce. In both cases the rules are the same, and the lawyer's work is a mirror image.
Updated · Practice area: Criminal defence lawyer
An order, an administrative case and a criminal case - three different procedures in one night
What the lawyer does for the victim - five steps from the order to the verdict
Documentation before and after the call
A medical certificate of injuries the same day, dated photos, messages and recordings, witnesses. Family cases fall apart on the "word against word" principle - the lawyer builds the chain of documents on the first day so that the order is confirmed and the case is not discontinued later.
Confirmation and content of the order
A restraining order requires court confirmation; the lawyer represents the victim at the hearing and asks for the content of the order - not only a ban on approaching, but the home, the children, a ban on communication through third parties, weapons.
A protective order and the home
When the restraining order expires, a protective order from the court on a separate application: the victim's right to live in the shared flat, the children's residence, allocation of expenses to the abuser. This does not wait for the divorce or property case.
Running the criminal case
Victim status, testimony in the lawyer's presence, proving the systematic nature through earlier facts (previous calls, orders, certificates), requests for protection measures - remote testimony, no encounter with the accused at the hearing.
Children and parallel cases
A domestic violence case directly affects the divorce, the child's residence and maintenance cases - the order and the verdict are evidence there. The lawyer builds the criminal and family cases into one strategy so that testimony in one does not contradict the other.
What the lawyer does for the accused - when the order and the charge arrive together
The confirmation hearing
A restraining order is not confirmed automatically - the court examines the ground. At the hearing the lawyer argues the absence of facts, an alternative version and a narrowing of the order (contact with the children, collecting personal belongings, work). Missing the hearing confirms the order in full.
The false accusation version
A complaint filed in parallel with a divorce, a child residence or property dispute calls for an examination of motive: the timing, the absence of earlier complaints, injuries inconsistent with the version, witnesses. The lawyer proves this with facts, not by attacking the accuser.
Complying with the order - the most important advice
Breaching an order is a separate crime and the most frequent cause of custody in this category. A call "to calm things down", a message about the child, passing a message through a relative - all are breaches. Contact with the child and collecting belongings only in the manner set out in the order or through a lawyer.
Defence in the criminal case
Refuting the systematic element under Article 126¹, an expert examination of the origin of injuries, contradictions in testimony, the mutual conflict version. Children's testimony as witnesses is subject to special rules - the lawyer checks that they were observed.
Reconciliation and outcome
A domestic violence case does not end with the victim "withdrawing the complaint" - it is a public prosecution. But reconciliation, compensation and a behaviour change programme affect the sentence and the preventive measure. The lawyer frames this in an agreement so that the order's period and contact with the children are taken into account.
The two questions that make an order most painful
Children: a restraining order often cuts off the accused's contact with the children entirely, and that restriction later becomes the "existing situation" in the divorce case when residence is decided. The accused's lawyer asks at the confirmation hearing for a contact arrangement with the children as a separate point - in the presence of a third person, through the social service; the victim's lawyer - for reasoning of the restriction in the child's interest, if the danger extends to the child.
The home: removal from the home under an order does not change ownership - the flat remains whose it was, but living in it for the period of the order stays with the victim, even if the flat is in the abuser's name. After the period expires the question is settled by a protective order or a family case. Both sides' lawyers align these periods with the parallel civil cases.
In both cases one rule: while the order is in force, all contact - about the child, the flat, belongings - goes through the lawyers. This is not a formality but the only way to guard against a charge of breaching the order.
What the lawyer needs - for the victim and the accused alike
- A copy of the order with the full text: period, prohibitions, the clauses on children and the home, the date of the confirmation hearing.
- Medical documents on injuries with dates - a certificate, an expert report, photos; on the accused's side - a certificate of their own injuries too, if the conflict was mutual.
- Messages, call history, audio and video recordings in full - with context, not as isolated fragments.
- Previous calls to the police, earlier orders, administrative decisions - evidence of a systematic pattern or of its absence.
- Documents from the parallel cases: the divorce claim, the child residence request, the property dispute - for comparing dates.
- A list of witnesses: neighbours, relatives, colleagues, the school, the doctor - who saw or heard what and when.
- Documents on ownership and registration of the flat - for the question of the home.
Three situations and the lawyer's work in each
An order issued, the case "word against word"
The injury is minor, there are no witnesses, the accused denies it. The victim's lawyer gathers earlier facts and messages to show a pattern; the accused's lawyer examines contradictions in the version and motive. The outcome on both sides depends on who documented the first week more fully.
An order in parallel with a divorce
The complaint arrived a week after the child residence dispute began. The accused's lawyer shows the timing and the absence of earlier facts and asks for a contact arrangement within the order. The victim's lawyer, conversely, shows that the violence followed precisely the decision to separate - a typical pattern.
Breaching the order because of the child
The accused called the child on their birthday - a breach of the order, detention. Defence: the nature of the breach, the absence of danger, the vagueness of the contact rule in the order. The outcome is often avoiding custody, but a stricter order. The lesson: contact only as the order provides.
Questions about domestic violence
I called the police but want to withdraw the complaint. Will the case be discontinued?
No - domestic violence is a public prosecution case and the investigation does not depend on the victim's wishes. Cancelling the order is decided by the court on an assessment of the danger. A lawyer can ask for the order's scope to be changed or for a reconciliation to be formalised, but "withdrawal" does not exist procedurally - and that also protects the victim from pressure.
An order was issued against me; the flat is mine and the children are there. What rights do I have?
Ownership is unchanged, but living in the flat for the period of the order stays with the victim and the children. Your right is to narrow the order at the confirmation hearing: a contact arrangement with the children, collecting personal belongings in the presence of the police, exceptions connected with work. Attending the hearing with a lawyer settles these questions; missing it does not.
The violence was not physical - threats, control, money. Does that count?
Yes - psychological and economic violence are forms of domestic violence under the law and can be grounds for an order and for Article 126¹ if systematic. Proof is harder: messages, recordings, witnesses, documents of financial control. The lawyer assembles this material before the order so that the court confirms it.
I am a foreigner, my spouse is Georgian, my residence depends on them. Will an order cancel my residence?
An order does not cancel a residence permit automatically. Residence on the family reunification ground is subject to review when the marriage ends, but for a victim of violence the law provides for residence on an independent ground. The lawyer runs the criminal and the immigration matter together.
How long does an order last, and can it be extended?
A restraining order, once confirmed, lasts for months; a protective order is issued by the court for a longer period and can be renewed on a new application when it expires, if the danger remains. Either side may ask for the period to be changed on a change of circumstances.
Lawyers for domestic violence cases
This category requires criminal and family law at the same time. The card shows typical cases and languages; within 15 minutes the coordinator connects you with a lawyer who works on your side - the victim's or the accused's.
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Within 15 minutes the coordinator connects you with a domestic violence lawyer - on the victim's or the accused's side - who reads the text of the order today and prepares you for the hearing.