Adoption and Guardianship - When You Become a Child's Parent by Law
Adoption and guardianship are two different institutions with one purpose: that a child has an adult who answers for them by law. Adoption gives the child a new parent permanently, with every right: surname, inheritance, maintenance. Guardianship is temporary care and representation while a parent cannot or will not fulfil their duties. The choice between the two, and the procedure for each, are where families most often lose years.
This page describes both institutions from a practical angle: how adoption works and at which stage the obstacles arise, when the biological parent's consent is needed and when it is not, how a spouse adopts a stepchild, how a grandmother formalises guardianship of a grandchild, when and how a parent is deprived of rights and how they are restored, and what is different in intercountry adoption.
Updated · Practice area: Family lawyer
Adoption, Guardianship, Curatorship, Foster Care - How They Differ and Which You Need
Families often ask for "guardianship" when they need adoption, and vice versa. The table compares all four forms by their consequences.
The Adoption Procedure - From Registration to the Court Decision
Registration and assessment of the adopter
An application to the agency, a document package (health, criminal record, income, housing, marriage), a social worker's assessment and a preparation course. The lawyer prepares the package so that the typical reasons for refusal (insufficient income, health, age difference) are justified in advance.
The child's status and consents
A child becomes eligible for adoption if the parents have died, been deprived of rights, given consent or gone missing. Consent is given notarially or in court, after a set period from the child's birth; from age 10, the child's own consent too. The lawyer checks which consent is needed and which ground replaces it.
Matching and adaptation
The agency matches child and adopter by order and suitability; in stepchild or relative adoption there is no matching stage. The adaptation period and the social worker's report are the main document for the court.
Court
Adoption only by court decision, in a closed hearing, with the agency taking part. The court checks the child's interests, the adopter's suitability and the validity of consents. The lawyer represents the adopter and proves the grounds replacing consent if the biological parent refuses.
Registration and confidentiality
On the basis of the decision, the registry draws up a new birth record naming the adopters as parents; a change of surname and, with the court's consent, of first name. The secrecy of adoption is protected by law; disclosing it carries liability.
Consequences
An adopted child is equal to one's own child in every right; contact with and maintenance from the biological parents end (in stepchild adoption, on one side only). Adoption is annulled only by court, in the child's interests, on strict grounds.
Restriction and Deprivation of Parental Rights - Grounds, Procedure and the Way Back
Deprivation of parental rights is an extreme measure the court applies only on serious grounds: violence or cruelty towards the child, systematic evasion of duties (including maintenance), chronic alcohol or drug dependence, involving the child in harmful activity, abandonment. The claim is brought by the other parent, the guardian, the agency or the prosecutor; the agency's report is mandatory.
Before deprivation the law knows a milder measure: restriction of parental rights, where leaving the child with the parent is dangerous but fault is not yet enough for deprivation (illness, temporary circumstances). On restriction the child is removed from the parent, but the right remains and contact is possible if it does not harm the child. The lawyer often seeks exactly restriction where deprivation cannot be proved, and, on the parent's side, defends restriction instead of deprivation.
Deprivation is not irreversible: a parent who has changed their life (treatment, stable work, housing) has the right to sue for restoration if the child has not yet been adopted. That is why adoption does not take place until the period after deprivation expires, and a parent who wants restoration should not lose time. Deprivation does not cancel the maintenance duty; the parent pays, without rights.
Guardianship and Curatorship by a Relative - How It Is Formalised and What It Changes
- Who becomes guardian
- Priority to relatives (grandparents, adult siblings, aunts and uncles) if suitable and in the child's interests. A parent may name a guardian in a will or an application; the guardianship authority takes this into account.
- Appointment
- By decision of the guardianship authority (the agency), without court: an application, documents, a social worker's report, the child's opinion from age 10. The typical case: a parent is abroad and the child stays with the grandmother, who without guardianship cannot represent the child at school, at the doctor or at the border.
- Powers
- Representing the child before every institution, managing property under the authority's supervision (disposal only with consent), residence and education matters. Parental rights remain with the parent unless removed; the parent may return and guardianship ends.
- Reporting and supervision
- The guardian reports periodically to the authority on the child's condition and property; the social worker makes visits. Misuse of the child's property is a ground for terminating guardianship and for liability.
- Termination
- On majority, adoption, restoration of parental rights or breach of the guardian's duties. Unlike adoption, guardianship creates no right of inheritance; a grandmother who wants her grandchild to receive her property needs a will.
What an Adopter or Guardian Needs to Start the Procedure
- Identity documents, a marriage certificate (for adoption by spouses) and the spouse's consent if one spouse adopts.
- A health certificate in the prescribed form and a criminal record certificate, for both adopters or the guardian.
- Proof of income and housing: an employer's certificate, a registry extract or a lease, readiness for the social worker's visit.
- The child's documents: birth certificate, proof of the parents' status (death certificate, court decision on deprivation, or consent).
- For stepchild adoption: the other biological parent's notarised consent or the ground replacing it (deprivation of rights, death, missing status, evasion of maintenance).
- For intercountry adoption: a suitability report from the competent authority of the adopter's country, legalised and translated.
Three Adoption and Guardianship Cases
Stepchild adoption when the biological father "refuses but is absent"
A stepfather has raised his wife's child for 6 years; the biological father pays no maintenance, has not seen the child in 5 years and refuses consent. Lawyer: first a claim for deprivation of rights on the ground of systematic evasion of duties (a bureau certificate of arrears, evidence of no contact), then adoption without consent. Both processes completed in 11 months.
A grandmother who could not take her grandchild across the border
The mother works in Italy, the 9-year-old lives with the grandmother, the school and the doctor no longer accept a power of attorney, and a visa requires a legal representative. Lawyer: appointment of curatorship at the agency with the mother's consent and the child's opinion, parental rights preserved. The grandmother became legal representative within 6 weeks; the mother's rights unchanged.
A mother facing deprivation of rights
The agency filed for deprivation on the ground of dependence; the child was temporarily in foster care. Lawyer for the mother: treatment records, stable work and housing, a request for restriction instead of deprivation, a contact schedule. The court restricted rather than removed the rights; within a year the child returned to the mother.
Questions About Adoption and Guardianship
I am single. Can I adopt?
Yes: the law does not require marriage of an adopter; the assessment is individual: age, health, income, housing, motivation. In practice the assessment of a single adopter is more detailed and the wait may be longer, but there is no legal obstacle.
The biological mother gave consent and has now changed her mind. What happens?
Consent can be withdrawn until the court decision; after that the adoption is final and can be annulled only by court on strict grounds. That is why the lawyer runs the procedure from consent to court with minimal loss of time, and documents the child's interests (adaptation, the bond with the adopter) even before the decision.
I live abroad and want to adopt a child from Georgia.
Intercountry adoption is possible, but with priority for Georgian adopters: a child is placed with a foreign or foreign-resident adopter only if no family is found within the country. The procedure runs through the central authorities of both countries under the Hague Convention; for adoption of a relative or stepchild the priority rule is relaxed.
The child lives with the grandmother; the parents are alive and simply do not care for him. Guardianship or adoption?
Guardianship first: it is formalised without depriving the parents of rights, where they in fact cannot or do not provide care, and gives the grandmother legal representation. Adoption requires the parents' consent or deprivation of their rights and severs the tie permanently; that decision should be taken on the child's interests and the family's reality, together with a lawyer.
Can an adopted child find out about their biological parents?
The secrecy of adoption protects the interests of the adopters and the child; an adult adoptee has the right to receive information about their origin under the procedure set by law. Disclosure to third parties without the adopter's consent is prohibited and carries liability.
Lawyers for Adoption and Guardianship
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